The best phone call ever!
Let’s
imagine for a moment. Your telephone rings, and the voice on the other end is
someone that you greatly respect. This could be your teacher, your pastor, your
coach, your karate instructor, or a friend.
This person says, “I just thought I would call and tell you that I think
that you are one of the nicest people I know” “You are a great person to be
around, and I like listening to the things that you have to say” “Every time
that I am around you, I feel inspired and motivated to want to be a better
person” “I wish I could see you every day, because you motivate me to be my
best”. “That is all I wanted to say, and I look forward to seeing you soon”
Now, if a
person called you and said these things to you, how would that make you feel
about yourself? You would feel great about yourself, wouldn’t you? By someone
taking their time to call and say all of those things about you, it would
probably make you want to be even a better person yourself. You would have such
confidence in yourself, that you would want to get better grades, work harder
in your other activities like hobbies or sports, you would want to be a better son
or daughter, and even a better martial artist.
The words
that the person on the phone said to you, made you feel positive about how you
see yourself. What if the person on the other end of the phone was you? What if
you said all of those great things about yourself every day? Things like I’m a
great person, I always try my best; I can do anything that I set my mind to. I
want to help others. There is a saying that the mind completes what ever
picture we put in it. If we paint a picture of ourselves about the type great
person that we could be, we can become that person. It all starts with the way
that we chose to see our self. How we see our self is called our “Self Image”
If you say positive things to yourself, you will have a positive self image.
With a positive self image, an interesting thing happens. Your confidence
grows, and when your confidence grows, your competence grows, which simply
means, when your self image improves, your performance improves.
If you see
yourself as a straight A student, you will become a straight A student. If you
see yourself as a doctor, you can become a doctor. And, if you see yourself as
a black belt, you can become a black belt.