Sunday, January 15, 2017
Coming Soon Fight Skills
Saturday, January 14, 2017
Overcoming Fear
Fear and Mental Toughness
Saturday, January 7, 2017
Coach Martin MVP Article
Thursday, January 5, 2017
Big Four
I love this article, it fits the mindset one should get from your instructor in whatever martial art you take the big four: goal setting, mental rehearsal, self talk, arousal control
The Big 4 – Navy SEAL’s Technique to Conquering Fear and Panic
Written by Chris on December 06, 2013 19 Comments
The Big 4 - Navy Seal's Technique to Conquering Fear and Panic
“Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not the absence of fear.”
Mark Twain
In stressful situations when our life is at threat we have a very powerful mechanism of protection. It is an automated system within our brain that acts even before we are able to take conscious actions.
This system has protected us during the millions of years of evolution from predators and imminent danger. Even though it is very sophisticated, it can have flaws.
Say hello to the Amygdala!
The Amygdala
The amygdala is well hidden in the depths of the human brain and it has developed prior to our neocortex (the thinking brain). It is part of the limbic system and its purpose is to regulate emotional reactions such as fear and aggression.
Since the limbic system and the amygdala are older than the neocortex (in terms of evolution), it has priority (in response) whenever dealing with very dangerous situations. A tragic example that shows how we can act prior to being conscious is the story of Matilda Crabtree.
Back in 1994, Matilda was a 14 year old girl who wanted to make a prank to her parents. As Bobby Crabtree and his wife returned home late at night, they thought Matilda was at one of her friends’ house. However, as they entered home, Bobby heard some noise coming from upstairs. Matilda hid in the closet wanting to scare her parents. As Bobby got upstairs he took his gun and went to Matilda’s bedroom. When she jumped out of the closet, Bobby pulled the trigger. Matilda died 12 hours later.
Bobby’s fear kicked in and his body took action way before he could be conscious of what he was doing. We are talking about milliseconds here, the bits of time that can really make a difference. Bobby Crabtree was not prosecuted because what happened was an accident. However, you can imag1ine the pain this father had to live with throughout his life.
The Mechanism of Fear
When in panic or fearful situations, there are two parts of the human brain that fight for control:
1. The frontal lobes (part of the neocortex) – that are responsible with conscious and rational decision making processes.
2. The amygdala – which is twice as faster in response than the frontal lobes and this sometimes can be misleading. The purpose of the amygdala is to protect, no matter what.
There are some fears that are pre-programmed in the human brain. This means that we are born with them. Chocking, drowning, the fear of heights, and even the fear of public speaking are examples of such.
Whenever in peril, the amygdala kicks in as the first commander; it sends signals to the hippocampus (another part of the limbic system) which in turn releases stress hormones such as cortisol and adrenaline; they prepare our body for the fight or flight response.
Thus, all the energy available is hijacked and directed to the feet for running or to the hands for fighting the imminent danger.
The Big Four
Navy SEALs are often confronted with such life threatening situations and to succeed they have to effectively conquer their fears. It has been shown that humans can minimize the time before the fear stimulus reaches the frontal cortex so that the decision is more conscious. It basically means that the response from the frontal cortex should be as close as possible to the response from the amygdala.
Members of the Navy SEAL (N.S.) are trained to increase their mental toughness with the ultimate purpose of controlling their fears and being able to appropriately respond in panicking situations. The technique is called The Big Four and (as you guessed) it has 4 parts:
1. Goal Setting (G)
When you are in a stressful situation your amygdala is firing like crazy. Emotions, fear, stress, you name it; it’s a total chaos. The frontal lobes can bring structure to this inferno through goal setting.
They can keep the amygdala at ease.
N.S. members often think about their friends, family, religious beliefs, and other important things from their lives.
The key point is to see something positive in the future (in the near future, if possible). That serves as an anchor to your inner balance.
2. Mental Rehearsal (M)
Mental Rehearsal is also known as visualization and it refers to continuously running an activity in your mind. When the real situation occurs, you are better prepared to fight it.
Take for example Michael Phelps.
Few people know that his training is insane. I have learned from Charles Duhigg’s book The Power of Habit that throughout his years of training, Michael Phelps followed the same routine over and over again, with the preciseness of an atom clock.
From getting closer to the Olympic pool, to fixing his goggles, to stepping onto the diving board, then the jump, the first contact with water, each hand movement, and so on. All of these coordinated so accurately that he knew them by heart. They were part of him. Phelps’ coach used to name this routine as “the track”.
Now, in this track, Michael basically confronted all the scenarios that can possibly occur.
August 13, 2008
It was the day of the finals for the 200m butterfly swim in The Beijing Olympic Games.
Phelps was prepared. When his coach saw him enter the arena, he shouted at him to plug-in the “track”. Michael was already plugged-in.
He was a winner even before getting into the pool. Everything was taking place the way he knew it by heart: the diving board, the water, hand movements, wait…
Something was wrong. Water started to enter into his goggles. He could not see….
When I first heard the story I thought that it had a sad ending. However, instead of panicking, Phelps was trained for this.
He already had a scenario when this would happen. Sight would not be a problem for him because he knows by heart how many hand movements he needs to make until reaching the final wall. He played “the track”… and amazingly he won the gold medal, finishing 0.66 seconds faster than Laszlo Cseh, the second place.
This is the power of mental rehearsal.
Confront the bad situation in your mind over and over again and it would come naturally when you face it for real. This is what many public speakers do.
Psychologists treat phobic patients by exposure to the stimuli causing the phobia.
3. Self Talk
We know from research (here or here) that the average person speaks to him self more than 400 words per minute.
Logic guides me to say that it would pay much of a difference if these words are predominantly positive. These guys say that positive self-talk can override the signals from the amygdala.
I’ve personally learned about positive self-talk from Brian Tracy’s book The Power of Self-Confidence.
4. Arousal control
This is more of a physical exercise. It focuses on breathing and it requires to deliberately breathe slower as it would help counteract some of the effects of panic.
Long exhales mimic the process of relaxation within the body.
Long inhales provide much more oxygen to the brain which results in better cognition processes.
Each of these techniques may not work when used individually due to the powerful signaling coming from the amygdala, but they can definitely kick-ass when they are used together.
Don’t forget:
1. Goal Setting – Find an anchor. Project yourself into a better future.
2. Mental Rehearsal – Visualize the situation that bugs you the most and try viewing it from multiple perspectives. Repeat it over and over again.
3. Self-talk – If you can differentiate between negative and positive thoughts, you’re a good candidate into choosing which ones are better for you.
4. Arousal Control – Slowly inhale. Slowly exhale.
This technique can be applied in different contexts, such as when your life is at threat or when the sweets aisle from the supermarket is threatening your waistline.
Wednesday, January 4, 2017
So you wanna be a warrior
Then define what it means to you, work hard and discover how to push through your limits.
Coach Marty Martin
Behavior is the foundation of all the other parts in a warriors lifestyle, the collective of an individuals behaviors. If the foundation of your behavior isn’t positive, rooted in high standards and strong sense of high moral and ethical code then sooner or later you will no longer be a true warrior you will falter. Without that solid foundation, it is easy for you to lose focus of your values. For this reason, it is vital that your behavior adheres to the highest standards. Don’t compromise where your behavior is concerned. This is just one of the traits that sets the warrior apart as an uncommon man. Work to build a solid character and maintain a solid reputation, which is true to your why as an uncommon individual.
When someone treats you with disrespect or is just plain rude, it can be tempting to respond in kind, but this is not the behavior of the true warrior. A warrior cannot allow others to dictate his choice of action. Don't let the behavior of someone else change your why, at least not in a negative way, the positive actions of other warriors can be a reflection of your conviction.
How you respond to the events in your life, both the good ones and the challenges, reveal your true sense of character. The true measure of a man is how that man responds to the challenges of life.
If you want to truly know how well you have developed your character, pay attention to how you respond to both the challenges and the triumphs of your life. This not only applies to those times when you are with other people, but also for the quiet times when you are alone. The truest test of behavior is what you do when you are alone. Do you still live up to your standards when nobody is watching? Do you live up to your reputation when you are at home with your family or only when you are in public? Your behavior should be sincere and genuine. You should not act one way in public and another way in private.
Your character is revealed through your words and your actions that is your behavior. You must be consistent and sincere in order to be an uncommon man – a warrior. Strive to make sure that your words and your actions are in line with your why. This is the nature of the uncommon man – the nature of the warrior.
You have to remain conscious of your every thought and your every word. Many people basically live their lives going through life without any true direction, responding in whatever manner their emotions dictate to them in any given moment. The warrior can’t afford to live his life in this way; he has to be ever vigilant of his thoughts, words and actions for they dictate his behavior. He must maintain his strength of character in all of the situations of life. No matter what circumstances he finds himself in, the man of character will behavior appropriately, maintaining his principles, which he has firmly decided to incorporate into his life. These incorporate daily habits, daily rituals and strong spiritual conscience. This takes practice and determination. Hemingway called this “Grace under pressure.”
While your reputation is important, at least to a degree, it is your authentic character that truly matters. Each of your personal behaviors collectively all those you act you act upon are the foundation of your true character. This foundation is your sincere desire to be a man of character – a true warrior and to live according to those principles, which make someone an uncommon man – a warrior. Understanding the importance of your personal behavior and how that shapes who you truly are is the guide to living the life of a true warrior.